Thursday, December 17, 2009

SUCCESS LIFESYTLE!!

A success story for one person will differ greatly from a success story of another individual. One person may value a career over relationships. A success story regarding a professional achievement will mean more to them that someone who has a successful family life. This, of course may change over time. As we go through life, success and our goals change, depending on circumstances and personal growth.

Success and Setting Goals

Most people want to be successful in life and to be considered a success by others. You need to know how you define success. Only once you have completed this exercise, can you then set goals that will result in your success, and identify those critical success factors that you can relate to.
All my life, I always wanted to be somebody. Now I see that I should have been more specific. Lily Tomlin
If you do not know what your goals are, how will you know when you have achieved them? Success is about moving towards what you deem to be important in your life.
Dont compare yourself to anyone else it detracts you from your own goals. What someone else is striving towards may not be what your ultimate goal is.
Once the goals are set, then the hard work begins in order to reach those goals. Richard Branson started his entrepreneurial career from a houseboat. It was through vision, determination, knowing what he wanted to achieve and continually striving towards these dreams, that he reached them.
Success comes in all different shapes and sizes with one common denominator - success is important and it takes work to reach.

Success and Money

Success does not always have to involve money. There are millions of people in the world who may not have money, but they are happy and hence successful in themselves.
Money alone cannot measure success. Does the person who has money feel fulfilled and at peace with themselves? The answer to this question will determine whether or not success has been attained.

The Success Factors

Regardless of what your specific success is, there are ways to surpass your goal. We have put together success factors that can guide you towards success.
There is no better gratification than being successful. Accept that you are in for some hard work but the results will be incredible. Use the success tips on this website as guidelines and step outside the box.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Success Companion!!

THE BUILDING BLOCKS OF A SUCCESSFUL LIFE
By
Senator01 Udoma Jnr
PREFACE
It is a well-established fact that in life no one can succeed in any endeavour all by himself or herself. The journey of life requires a success companion. A companion is someone or something that’s always close by that you can turn to for help, advice or support; someone to look up to for inspiration, motivation or words of wisdom, to guide your steps; preferably, someone who has gone through that road before you – a mentor, to give you a hand when the going gets tough. Without a success companion the road of success will require double the effort, call for more resources and take twice the time needed and even so with no assurance of getting it right at first attempt. This explains why people engage in jubilation when they achieve success. It is not an all-comers’ achievement and is hardly predictable.
Read me a success story and I will tell you, with all certainty, who or what the success factor or companion was. Success companion is not always a person or living being. The words of a sage, the tales of the wise, the Laws of the Almighty, age old proverbs, universal principles and laws, books, messages, inspirational renditions, quotable quotes, how-to techniques, recipes and master plans of magnificent edifices, could each be a Success companion to a devotee on the way of success.
This book, small as it may seem, is a masterpiece. It is exactly what you need to accompany you on your journey of success in whatever life’s endeavour you are pursuing or are planning to embark on. It will guide you step by step along your way; give you advice when you are confused; inspire you when you are down casted; motivate you when your zeal is diminished. It will more than provide you succour when no one is around to lend a helping hand. This book will give you hope in your moment of despair.











INTRODUCTION
We live on planet Earth. The Earth is one of the planets in the several million galaxies. The Earth is the only planet known to man that sustains life. The Earth is man’s natural habitat. Needless to say that there is strong correlation between man and his natural environment. Mundane science has ample evidence to support this assertion but the full extent of the effects of this relationship has not been fully understood by the Earths ace inhabitants. Countless persons, organisations, groups, institutions, religious bodies, schools of thought, government and voluntary societies have worked hard on the subject of man and his environment and left their findings, believes, postulations and prognosis for humanity to use as the basis for their believes and actions.
These findings, some of which are not known to all man, don’t seem to fit together as the pieces of a jig-saw puzzle would to give everyone a clear picture of what our sojourn on earth is all about and therefore leaves many in doubt as to what the truth is and which school of thoughts holds the answers to all the questions and the challenges we face at various stages of our lives on planet earth.
For a smooth successful sojourn on earth are three key requirements. These are KNOWLEDGE, UNDERSTANDING, WISDOM and ACTIONS. Achievements are the positive outcome of appropriate application of these keys to any task or human endeavour. Failures and disappointments are the negative outcome of inability to apply the keys correctly or appropriately.
Every human being desires success and achievement in whatever it is they are working at or pursuing in life. This is a natural expectation of all mankind. But the pathway to this attainment is usually no a straight one and many have not only failed to meet success with their efforts, but have fallen victim of the very circumstances that they were expecting to triumph over. The worse scenario is that of meeting with death on the way to success. This is one tragedy that the whole of mankind wish to avoid – untimely death.
Pursuing one’s dream is often times likened to plying an unfamiliar road going through an unfamiliar terrene. The danger of an unfamiliar terrene is its unfamiliarity – not knowing what to expect and preparing adequately for it. Failure therefore is the direct consequence of lack of inadequate preparation for the challenges one is facing. Success in life is all about preparing adequately before facing the challenges of life. Preparation starts with seeking knowledge and getting understanding on what challenges you are expecting to face. Wisdom is the ability to correctly discern how to apply the knowledge that you have. It is the power of correct counsel and sound judgement of a given situation and determining the appropriate actions to take. Wisdom is the principal key to success not strength or might, not wealth and resources, not prayer and fasting. And wisdom only comes to people with understanding. Without understanding you cannot receive the gift of wisdom because you won’t be able to apply it. Understanding is the foundation upon which wisdom is built.
To prepare for success in life requires that one be knowledgeable on issues of success, have good understanding on how these issues will affect or respond to them, know what actions to take in anticipation of them and be courageous enough to face them at the appropriate time. This seemingly simplistic approach to success eludes many lives thereby making success an enigma.
A comprehensive study of this subject and the discoveries made from that study is what has been compiled and is being presented here in a logical sequence to guide and lead every success aspirant to success in life, business or ministry. This compilation is a must read for everyone desiring to be a success story. It will serve as a success manual for anyone who is wise enough to follow it. The success stories of past and present heroes that have been randomly selected to illustrate the relevance of the success components of this compilation to real life situations is a further proof of the efficacy of the success master plan laid out in this manual titled SUCCESS COMPANION.

CHAPTER ONE: THE UNIVERSE AND YOU
· Who are You and what’s your background
·What’s Your Place in the Universe · What is the Correlation between You and the Universe
CHAPTER TWO: UNDERSTANDING LIFE OF SUCCESS
· Desiring Success
· Preparing for Success
· Achieving Success
· Managing Success
CHAPTER THREE: KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT’S YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE
· Know What Life is all About?
· Know Who you are?
· Know Why You are Here?
· Living a purpose driven Life
CHAPTER FOUR: WHAT ARE YOUR GIFTS AND TALENTS
· Definition of GIFT
· Definition of Talent
· Discovering your Gifts
· Discovering your Talents
· What are Gifts and Talents for?
CHAPTER FIVE: DEVELOPING TALENTS INTO SKILL AND GIFTS INTO RESOURCES
· Relating Talent and Skill
· Relating Gift and Resource
· The Place Of Skill
· Managing Multiple Gifts and Talents
CHAPTER SIX: USE YOUR SKILLS AND RESOURCES TO EARN INCOME
· The role of Money in Life
· How to Make your First Money
· How to Handle the Money you Make
· How to relate with Money
CHAPTER SEVEN: WORK HARD GAIN EXPERIENCE AND AIM FOR POSITION AND RECOGNITION
· The Place of Work
· The Importance of experience
· Position and Recognition
· Success as the product of relationships
CHAPTER EIGHT: USE POSITION/RECOGNITION TO BUILD RELATIONSHIPS
· Building Relationship with God
· Building Relationship with Men
· Servicing a Relationship
· Using a Relationship
CHAPTER NINE: WITH RECOGNITION COME FAME AND FORTUNE

CHAPTER TEN: WITH FAME AND FORTUNE COMES POWER
CHAPTER ELEVEN: WITH POWER COMES INFLUENCE
CHAPTER TWELVE: WITH INFLUENCE COMES DOMINION (FULFILMENT OF PURPOSE)
APPENDIX: HISTORICAL AND LIVE EXAMPLES OF MEN AND WOMEN OF SUCCESS

The building blocks of a successful life starts with: KNOWLEDGE OF WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT’S YOUR PURPOSE IN GOD’S AGENDA, YOUR GIFTS/TALENTS, SKILLS, PASSION, WORK, EXPERIENCE, ACHIEVEMENTS, POSITION, RECOGNITION, FAME, FORTUNE, RELATIONSHIP, POWER, INFLUENCE, DOMINION.